Are you ready to embark on a journey towards a deeper connection with yourself, your body, and your sexuality? If you’re longing for more intimacy and a truly fulfilling sex life, you’ve arrived at the right place.

I’m Alexandra Skoeld, a certified holistic sex and intimacy coach, and I’m here to create a safe and welcoming space for individuals and couples ready to navigate their path towards an exciting, authentic and deeply intimate sex.

Whether you’re yearning to enhance your libido, gain confidence, quiet a busy mind so you can embrace your body, overcome performance anxiety and other challenges, or navigate the intricacies of communication in relationships, I’m here to help and empower you. Let’s embark on this journey where each step becomes a celebration of who you are and your desires, fostering a profound connection to your own sexuality and sensuality.

What I offer

Individual & Couples Coaching

Whether you’re seeking to rekindle the spark in your relationship, overcome intimacy challenges, or explore your own desires and boundaries, I provide personalised coaching for both individuals and couples face to face and via zoom. 

Communication Skills

Enhance communication and connection through proven strategies that promote understanding, empathy, and healthy dialogue.

Sensuality & Pleasure

Discover pathways to increased pleasure, empowered sensuality, and deeper connections through personalised coaching and home practices.


Reconnect with your body, discover powerful somatic tools and techniques for lasting results and personal transformation. Our work together centres on awakening and nurturing a deeper understanding and acceptance of your physical sensations and emotions.

Healing & Growth

I am dedicated to assisting individuals in navigating sex and intimacy after trauma or other challenging experiences, supporting their healing journey, and nurturing personal growth. By providing a safe and understanding space, I aim to foster healthier, more fulfilling relationship to themselves and others.

My Approach

Empathetic guidance

I am a certified trauma informed and experienced coach committed to providing a compassionate and non-judgmental environment where you can openly explore your concerns, desires, and boundaries.


I offer personalised coaching sessions to address your unique needs, fostering a sense of trust, respect, and understanding.

Holistic wellness

I believe that intimacy extends beyond physical connections. My approach integrates emotional, mental, and physical well-being to create a balanced and fulfilling intimate life.

As a holistic sex and intimacy coach, I’ll unveil your potential and guide you to the amazing experiences you deserve and desire.

Ready to take your intimate life and pleasurable experiences to the next level? Let’s work together.


About Alexandra

Alexandra Skoeld is a certified holistic sex and intimacy coach trained in clinical sexology, a feminine embodiment coach and mentor, as well as a tantra and breathwork facilitator. Her work is from a trauma-informed lens, with a holistic approach that integrates the ‘Mind, Emotions, Body/Body Image & Energy’. At the heart of Alexandra’s coaching lies the commitment to cultivate an entirely safe and supportive space. This nurturing environment is designed to foster open dialogue, allowing for the sharing of personal challenges and desires without hesitation.

Having guided hundreds of individuals through her 1:1 coaching, online programs, workshops, both in person and online, international festivals, breathwork sessions, and heart-opening women’s circles,

Alexandra strongly believes that a happy, healthy sex life, pleasure, orgasms, and authentic connections are available for everyone.

She emphasises the significance of connecting to the body and heart, effective communication, learning to regulate your nervous system, ability to be present, and a curious mind.

Born and raised in Sweden, Alexandra brings a warm and compassionate approach to her work, combined with a direct and honest attitude aimed at assisting her clients in achieving their aspirations. For her, personal development and working on one’s sex life should be a fun and exciting journey. By infusing her guidance with humour and truth, Alexandra empowers her clients to liberate themselves from conditioned patterns and narratives that hinder personal growth. She is based in Sydney East and has over the years worked with clients both face to face and from all over the world via zoom.

Her certifications encompass a broad spectrum of fields, including clinical sexology, studied under the guidance of Dr. Patti Britton, a pioneer in Sex Coaching at SCU; Feminine Embodiment & Tantra facilitation from The School of Tantra & Sacred Arts; Breathwork facilitator with Michael Bijker and Life Awareness; trauma-informed coaching certification; and Psychology of Emotional Eating certification from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition. Additionally, she has completed a Sexual Attitude Reassessment and Restructuring (SAR) training under Dr. Agata Loewe in Warsaw, Poland.

Alongside these formal certifications, Alexandra has accumulated over a decade of diverse training, courses, and research in areas such as life coaching, trauma healing, nervous system regulation, holistic wellness, mental health, relationships, mindfulness, and communication. Her depth of understanding and wisdom stems not only from her studies and certifications but also from her rich life experiences and years of working with clients from various backgrounds. As a fully insured professional and a member of the World Association of Sex Coaches (WASC), Alexandra maintains a commitment to high standards and professionalism with a unique personal touch to her practice.

You deserve deep intimacy & amazing sex!

Book A Free Consultation Now!

Stay up to date with news & offerings



Love from Clients

Contact Alexandra