Alexandra is a certified sex and intimacy coach trained in clinical sexology and co-active coaching. She is passionate about empowering couples and individuals to experience their ultimate sexual pleasure and wellbeing. Alexandra uses a holistic, powerful and transformational approach to guide her clients with her knowledge to help them explore their true sexual self.

When we can fully express our desires and who we are as sexual beings,
we are able to live a more fulfilled life as human beings.

Alexandra believes sexual pleasure is a birthright and that every person deserves to be met, understood and satisfied in the bedroom. By fostering an open and healthy conversation about sexuality, Alexandra’s clients emerge as sexually confident, liberated people who are and free from shame, guilt and other negative emotions.


Alexandra Skoeld is a holistic sex and intimacy coach who works with individuals and couples from all over the world both via Skype and face to face in Sydney. She is on a mission to empower men and women to feel great about themselves, embrace their sexuality, uncover their true sexual potential and transform their lives. Alexandra was born and raised in Sweden and she brings a warm, positive, compassionate and non-judgmental approach to her coaching. Sex should be fun and playful yet sex and sexuality is such a difficult, taboo topic for so many people to talk about. She is all about creating a safe space, deep connection and trust with her clients to help them remove shame, guilt and any blockages that are in the way for them to experience ultimate sexual confidence, deep connection and maximum pleasure.

Alexandra believes that the body hears everything the mind says so her coaching is designed to encompass the “whole person”, using a model that includes mind, emotions, body/body image, energy and spirit.

She was trained in clinical sexology and co-active coaching by the pioneer of Sex Coaching Dr Patti Britton. Alexandra has also completed a Sexual Attitude Reassessment and Restructuring (SAR) training led by Dr. Agata Loewe in Warsaw Poland and are currently doing a feminine embodiment facilitator certification. She has done ISTA level 1 which is a spiritual, sexual and shamanic experience and she is a Landmark graduate. In addition to Sexology Alexandra has undertaken over a decade of training and research across fields of study including life coaching, holistic wellness, mental health, communication and human behaviour. She has learned powerful methods to create lasting changes in the lives of her clients and help them fully embody their truth so they can be who they were meant to be. Alexandra brings an abundance of understanding and knowledge into her coaching to help her clients find unconditional self love, acceptance, self-realisations and freedom to enjoy a healthy sex life. She is fully insured and meet the standards and are a professional member of World Association of Sex Coaches (WASC)



Alexandra frequently conducts workshops and seminars inspired by her training in human sexuality, communication, intimacy, pleasure and relationships. Her workshops are fun, engaging, and educational, and can be tailored for corporate and private functions.

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Alexandra provides face-to-face coaching to people of all ages and backgrounds from Sydney’s eastern suburbs. It’s a fun and powerful way to take back control of your sex life and experience the sex and intimacy you are longing for.

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Sex coaching is a direct powerful and transformation pathway to sexual wellness. Wherever you are in the world Alexandra is able to guide you and give you the knowledge and permission you need to change your life via Skype or over the phone.

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“After having my very first 1-on-1 breakthrough call I had my first orgasm with my partner! I’ve been with my partner for over 4 years and he is the only person I’ve ever been with and have never really enjoying sex and felt like it’s never worth the effort since I don’t even come close to any kind of climax. 1 week after our first call I took on everything Alex had suggested and chatted to my partner about things I didn’t even realise were affecting me and I had my first ever orgasm and I did it again! So excited and wouldn’t have been able to do it without Alex’s help. So thank you! Would HIGHLY recommend everyone who’s struggling with their pleasure / orgasm to work with Alex and make the jump as I’m so glad I did”

Anonymous Zoom CLIENT

“Alexandra has an excellent ability in being able to communicate information effectively. She has a in depth understanding of sexual issues and has practical ways to assist women in this area. Her calm and sensitive approach also makes her so suited to what she does. Her service exceeded my expectations”


“The key breakthrough for me was understanding how to make sex pressure-free and to be able to enjoy whatever sex means on any particular day. It’s also been important for me to learn how to appropriately communicate with my sexual partners – both inside and outside the bedroom. I don’t cum every time – but I definitely do more so than in the past. More importantly, I enjoy it just as much either way – and so do the people I sleep with. It’s really led to some pretty great experiences – Thanks Alex!”

ANONYMOUS Face to face client

“After the MBMVMP I totally shifted my energy, I am connected to myself, my pussy, my sexuality and I became magnetic for a partner with whom I allow myself to experience and receive pleasure from. I’ve learned how to communicate my boundaries, to be present in my body, relax, release and let go of trauma and past experiences that doesn’t serve me in the present moment. Also some good tips about giving pleasure which were appreciated :)) Was an intense journey which I committed myself to and the safe container that Alexandra created took me to the next level in my life journey. I feel blessed, grateful and honoured for being part of this program and all my takeaways”

ANONYMOUS Client love from MVBP

“After attending Alexandra’s workshop I had the best sex of my life. I have learned to love and accept my body and it doesn’t get in the way for me to experience all the pleasure I now know I deserve!”

ANONYMOUS Client love from a workshop

“I can’t thank you enough for helping me with my performance anxiety and teaching me the skills so I now can control my ejaculation. I feel like a whole new person and I wish everyone will have the courage to reach out for help.”


“I highly recommend Alexandra’s MVMBMP course for any woman who, like me, is wondering ‘is there more to intimacy and sexuality than this’ Alexandra is so knowledgeable, so kind and creates an incredibly safe environment to talk about this topic fully. What I found so unique about Alexandra’s course is it is all about ourselves first, the woman, ME, which in 6-weeks let me find me, the woman, not the roles I have been, but me, my voice, my heart and senses, all of that. It is one of the most valuable courses for me as a woman that I’ve ever gifted myself. The conversations I’ve since been able to have with my husband and 3 adult daughters are open and easy on this topic. They all want to know what I know now! Thank you Alexandra for the safe place you created and your kind, giving heart.”

Anonymous Client love from MVBP

“After a few years, sex with my girlfriend had become a bit stale for both of us – and it was starting to wear on our relationship. We reached out to Alexandra who quickly realised our first problem – Communication! Now we really found out what we want from sex. Our sex has gone to a new level. The mind is so powerful and when we really understood that and brought it into our sex lives – we have become closer than ever.”


“I just can’t thank you enough, i appreciate you beyond words! Thank you for the course you really are amazing and I just want the whole world to know about you! I still am on this journey but I’ve improved so much since starting and having more selfish sex and more focused on my pleasure.”

Jasmine MVBP Client

“I went into Alex’s course hoping to gain a thing or two about pleasure and listening to my body and I walked away learning things beyond my imagination about my intuition, feminine and masculine energies, how I look at my body, who I let into my space and so much more… if you are sitting on the fence about doing this course, I highly suggest you sign up! You will walk away with a wealth of knowledge, practical tools and confidence you never knew you needed to get through your life. Thank you Alex for creating something so many of us need, but didn’t realise! Xx”

Anonymous Client love from MVBP

“Hey! Just wanted to let you know how much of an impact you’ve had on my life since I’ve met you. Honestly I’m so much more open and confident now. I used to HATE self-pleasure. Now I do it often. Even look in the mirror sometimes. Crazy how much I have grown sexually in the short time I’ve known you. And when you commented on my photo yesterday saying I was glowing I was going to write back it’s all because of you. Honestly THANK YOU”.

Anonymous Client love