Hi, i am
Alexandra
I didn’t always feel safe in my body.
For years, I lived disconnected from my pleasure, successful on the outside, but numb inside, wondering if deep intimacy and real freedom were ever going to be possible for me.
I turned my trauma into purpose and today, I am a holistic sex & intimacy coach, pleasure expert and embodiment mentor. I am also a sensualist, heart-led speaker, tantra practitioner, breathwork facilitator, space holder, and full-spectrum woman.
Over the past five years, I’ve dedicated myself to helping people overcome challenges both in and out of the bedroom, guiding them into deeper intimacy, embodied confidence, and the ability to be fully present and receive more pleasure in their lives.
My mission is to lead you on a transformative journey, one that reconnects you with your body and sexual essence, so you can reclaim your voice, your pleasure, and your power. I’ve supported hundreds of clients worldwide, and I’m here to help you experience the love, sex, and intimacy you truly deserve.
I provide a compassionate, empowering, and safe space with a holistic and trauma-informed approach to help you embody your true self and fulfil your deepest desires.
How my journey started
I was born and raised in Sweden, where my journey into this work began over two decades ago.
After being sexually assaulted as a teenager, I disconnected from my body and drowned in shame. When I left Sweden after school, I was searching for meaning and trying to forget what had happened.
I became obsessed with understanding sex, intimacy, relationships, and love, driven by the quiet ache inside me asking:
This can’t be it! There must be more?
More to life, more to love, more to sex?
Before I left, I stood up in school and gave a talk on sex and intimacy. I spoke about connection, communication, and consent and people told me I should become a sexologist. They told me I made it feel safe to speak about things they’d never dared say out loud, that something in my presence made it easier to to listen and to be real.
I didn’t know it then, but that moment planted the seed for the work I do today.
But it wasn’t until nearly a decade later, after several rock bottoms, that I finally listened to my heart and pursued my deepest calling.
This work isn’t just a career, it’s my soul’s purpose. Every experience has shaped the woman I am today, and now I get to walk beside others on their journey back to their bodies, their truth, and their liberation. If you, like me, know deep down that you are here for more, you are in the right place.
You don’t need another self-help book or podcast. What you need is a safe space and someone you trust to guide you as you come home to your body and break free from everything that’s been holding you back.
Intimacy. Pleasure. Liberation. Inner harmony. Deep love. Amazing sex. Embodied wisdom, healing, power, intuition, magic, and yes, even orgasms… It’s all happening in your body.
“I don’t fear rejection anymore and prioritise myself and my pleasure.”
My breaking point
I tried many paths, life coaching, mindfulness, therapy and while they brought some temporary relief, nothing created the lasting change I was searching for. On the outside, I was the strong, independent woman: achieving, doing, hustling. But on the inside, I was disconnected from my body, my feminine, and my heart.
I felt numb. I judged my body harshly. I struggled to receive pleasure. Like so many women, I found myself rolling over after sex feeling empty and alone, wondering what was wrong with me.
I performed in the bedroom, unsure how to let go. I faked orgasms. I didn’t yet have the tools or courage to express my desires or set boundaries.
I told myself again and again, that maybe real love, intimate sex, and deep inner peace just weren’t meant for me in this lifetime.
Do you recognise any of these?
You are not alone!
Liberation
It wasn’t until I discovered the path of embodiment including tantra, somatic work, the feminine arts, breathwork, spiritual teachings, and nervous system regulation, that I began to experience real change in my body and in my life.
So much of what shapes our behaviours and emotions is held in the body, especially through the nervous system. That’s why body-first practices became the key to my own transformation and why they now form the foundation of the work I offer today.
Today
I feel at home in my body.
I trust its wisdom. I honour its rhythms. And I experience pleasure, intimacy, and connection in ways I never imagined possible. I communicate with clarity. I express my desires. I’ve created deep, healthy relationships — including with myself.
I can lead when I need to. I can soften and surrender when I choose to. I move through life with confidence, intuition, and embodied power and that’s not something I was taught… it’s something I remembered.
I never imagined this kind of liberation was possible for me, which is exactly why I know it’s possible for you.
“I am now experiencing greater success.”
Professional Credentials
I started my business five years ago and have since supported hundreds of individuals through various modalities, including 1:1 coaching, online programs, mentorships, workshops, international events, public speaking, breathwork sessions, men’s group work, and women’s circles. I’m passionate about embodiment and redefining sexuality as a pathway to healing, wholeness, and true liberation, not performance or perfection.
Today, I am a certified holistic sex and intimacy coach trained in clinical sexology, trauma-informed embodiment mentor and breathwork facilitator. I hold a strong and safe space for my clients, welcoming you exactly as you are.
Expertise, philosophy and method
My wealth of experience doesn’t just come from education, certifications, and training. It comes from significant investments in teachers, mentors, personal growth, and my profound healing journey of overcoming childhood trauma and sexual assault. My expertise goes far beyond a piece of paper or what I have read in a book, it is rooted in lived experiences, embodied wisdom, and a devotion to walking the talk and continuing to learn.
The Four Pillars of My Work
With a comprehensive understanding of each individual’s unique needs, I meet you where you are and guide you toward your fullest potential.
Holistic Approach
Seeing you as whole, integrating the mind, emotions, body/body image, energy, and spirit.
Personalised Experience
Every session is tailored to you. I combine a mix of holistic practices, somatic tools, and actionable homepractices to support your unique journey. This isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach, it’s a personalised roadmap to help you thrive.
Trauma-Informed Care
Creating a safe space to explore and understand how past and challenging experiences continue to impact your life today. Together, we focus on regulating your nervous system to foster inner harmony and lasting transformation.
Embodiment & Tantra
True transformation begins when the body is included in the process. Talk therapy can offer understanding, but connecting to your sensations and feelings, and integrating breath, movement, sound, touch, and tantric principles, whether in sessions or through home practices creates sustainable shifts that last a lifetime.
Certifications and Training
- Certified Holistic Sex and Intimacy Coach with Sex Coach U – Trained in clinical sexology and co-active coaching by Dr. Patti Britton
- Certified Feminine Embodiment and Tantra Facilitator (200h+) with The School of Tantra & Sacred Arts + One Year Additional Mentorship
- Certified Breathwork Facilitator with Michael Bijker and Life Awareness
- Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification with The Centre of Healing
- Sexual Attitude Reassessment and Restructuring (SAR) Training in Warsaw, Poland
- Psychology of Emotional Eating Certification from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition
- Level 1 & 2 Sound Healing Crystal Singing Bowls Certification with Rainbow Sounds
Alongside these formal certifications, I have accumulated over a decade of diverse training, courses, and workshops in areas such as life coaching, tantra, womb wisdom, trauma healing, sacred sexuality, cacao facilitation, shamanism, nervous system regulation, holistic wellness, spirituality, mental health, relationships, mindfulness, meditation, and communication.
Now it's your turn
I am deeply devoted to helping you on your journey, whether you want to experience transformative sex and intimacy coaching, reconnect with your body, or reclaim your feminine essence through the path of embodiment. I also facilitate breathwork for those who prefer to work directly with the body and bypass the mind.
As always, the hardest part is taking that first step to reach out for help.
Once we have our first chat, you will notice how safe you feel in my space and you will be glad you didn’t wait any longer.
Remember, whatever you’re going through, you’re not alone.
There is nothing wrong with you.
You don’t need fixing, you just need support.
And you don’t have to do it all on your own.
How I can help you
Online Programs / Workshops
Gratitude
I want to express my deep gratitude to my teachers, mentors, coaches, healers, shamans, and everyone who has helped me on my journey, both on my personal path and with my business as a coach, mentor, teacher, and space holder. I wouldn’t be where I am or who I am today without all the amazing people who have seen the potential in me, felt my devotion to my own healing and dedication to show up and serve and help others on their journey. Thank you!