Hi, i am
Alexandra
I am a holistic sex & intimacy coach, pleasure expert and embodiment mentor. I am also a sensualist, heart-led speaker, tantra practitioner, breathwork facilitator, space holder, and full-spectrum woman.
Over the past 5 years, I’ve dedicated myself to helping people overcome challenges both in and out of the bedroom, guiding them toward sexual liberation, confidence, and the ability to be fully present in life and receive pleasure. My mission is to lead you on a transformative journey, reconnecting you with your body and sexual essence so you can reclaim your voice, pleasure, and power. I’ve supported hundreds of clients worldwide, and I’m excited to help you experience the love, sex, and intimacy you truly deserve.
I provide a compassionate, empowering, and safe space with a holistic and trauma-informed approach to help you embody your true self and fulfil your deepest desires.
How my journey started
I was born and raised in Sweden, where my journey into this work began over two decades ago. As a teenager, after I was sexually abused, an experience that led me to disconnect from my body and true essence, drowning in shame. I left Sweden after finishing school, searching for meaning and trying to cover up what had happened.
Feeling broken and confused by the pain inside me, I immersed myself in researching sex, intimacy, relationships, love, and pleasure, driven by a relentless question echoing in my mind:
This can’t be it! There must be more?
More to life, more to love, more to sex?
Before leaving Sweden, I stood in front of my school, speaking about sex and intimacy, emphasising the importance of emotional and mental connection, communication, and consent, and how sex is much more than just a physical act. People suggested I become a sexologist because I spoke with ease, made it fun, and made others feel safe. That’s when I knew my calling was in this field.
But it wasn’t until nearly a decade later, after several rock bottoms, that I finally listened to my heart and pursued my deepest calling.
This work isn’t just a career, it’s my soul’s purpose. Every experience has shaped the woman I am today, enabling me to guide and serve people like you on their journey back to their bodies and liberation. If you, just like me know that you are here for more, you are in the right place.
You don’t need another self-help book or podcast. What you need is a safe space and someone you can trust to guide you as you learn to come home to your body and break free from what’s holding you back.
Intimacy, pleasure, liberation, inner harmony, amazing sex, true love, embodied wisdom, healing, and access to your power, intuition, magic and orgasms… it’s all happening in your body.
“I don’t fear rejection anymore and prioritise myself and my pleasure.”
My breaking point
I tried many paths life coaching, mindfulness, therapy, and yes it felt better in the moment but none created the lasting change I needed. I was “the strong and independent woman,” achieving, doing, hustling, completely locked out of my own body, my feminine and heart.
I felt numb and hated my body. I couldn’t receive pleasure, and like so many other women, I was rolling over in bed after sex feeling empty and broken, thinking something must be wrong with me.
I was performing in the bedroom, I couldn’t fully let go so I learned to fake my orgasm. I didn’t have the courage to ask for what I wanted, needed, or desired, or to express my boundaries.
I thought to myself so many times that real love, inner peace, intimate sex, and pleasure are just not going to be for me in this lifetime.
Do you recognise any of these?
As you see, you are not alone!
Liberation
It was only when I discovered the path of embodiment, tantra, somatics, the feminine arts, shamanism, spiritual teachings, understanding of my internal landscape, breathwork, and nervous system regulation that I could create real change within me and in my life.
Much of the information that influences our behaviours and emotions is conveyed through the body, particularly through the nervous system. This is why modalities that prioritise a body-first approach were key to my liberation and healing and are now forming the foundation and the pillar of my work today.
Today
I absolutely love my body with all its imperfections and flaws. I know how magical it is and I am deeply grateful for everything I can experience thanks to my body. I express myself freely and communicate with ease in all my connections, which has helped me create deep, authentic, and healthy relationships. I experience pleasure beyond what I could ever imagine, deep intimacy, amazing sex, and inner harmony. I feel at home in my body and feminine energy which has allowed me to slow down, surrender, and receive everything life has to offer. I can be the business woman who gets shit done when I need to and I can easily get out of my head, drop into my body and allow a man to lead. I promise you, it feels so good! The best part is that I am deeply connected to my intuition and embodied wisdom which has given me access to my power and truth.
I honestly could never imagine this would be possible for me in this lifetime. This is why I am so certain that this is available for everyone who is willing to do the work.
“I am now experiencing greater success.”
Professional Credentials
I started my business 5 years ago and have since supported hundreds of individuals through various modalities, including 1:1 coaching, online programs, mentorships, workshops, international events, public speaking, breathwork sessions, energy healing, men’s group work, and women’s circles. I am passionate about advocating for embodiment and sexual liberation as essential pathways to a fulfilling life.
Today, I am a certified holistic sex and intimacy coach trained in clinical sexology, trauma-informed embodiment mentor, breathwork, and tantra facilitator. I hold a strong and safe space for my clients, welcoming you exactly as you are.
Expertise, philosophy and method
My wealth of experience doesn’t just come from education, certifications, and training. It comes from significant investments in teachers, mentors, personal growth, and my profound healing journey of overcoming childhood trauma and sexual abuse. My expertise goes far beyond a piece of paper or what I have read in a book, it is rooted in lived experiences, embodied wisdom, and a devotion to walking the talk and continuing to learn.
The Four Pillars of My Work
With a comprehensive understanding of each individual’s unique needs, I meet you where you are and guide you toward your fullest potential.
Holistic Approach
Seeing you as whole, integrating the mind, emotions, body, energy, and spirit.
Trauma-Informed Care
A safe space to understand the effects of trauma and challenging experiences in your life. Focus on regulating your nervous system to create lasting change and inner harmony.
Embodiment & Somatics
Utilising movement, breath, sounds, and touch to facilitate healing, pleasure and connection.
Tantra & Spiritual Teachings
Implementing grounded spiritual teachings and tantric fundamentals to guide you towards liberation without bypassing the essential work needed for personal transformation.
Certifications and Training
- Certified Holistic Sex and Intimacy Coach with Sex Coach U – Trained in clinical sexology and co-active coaching by Dr. Patti Britton
- Certified Feminine Embodiment and Tantra Facilitator (200h+) with The School of Tantra & Sacred Arts + One Year Additional Mentorship
- Certified Breathwork Facilitator with Michael Bijker and Life Awareness
- Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification with The Centre of Healing
- Sexual Attitude Reassessment and Restructuring (SAR) Training in Warsaw, Poland
- ISTA Level 1 Spiritual, Sexual, Shamanic Experience
- Psychology of Emotional Eating Certification from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition
- Intuitive Rebirth Energy-Work Practitioner Certification with the Intuitive Rebirth Method
- Level 1 & 2 Sound Healing Crystal Singing Bowls Certification with Rainbow Sounds
Alongside these formal certifications, I have accumulated over a decade of diverse training, courses, and workshops in areas such as life coaching, tantra, trauma healing, sacred sexuality, shamanism, nervous system regulation, holistic wellness, spirituality, mental health, relationships, mindfulness, meditation, and communication.
Now it's your turn
I am deeply devoted to helping you on your journey, whether you want to experience transformative sex and intimacy coaching, reconnect with your body, or reclaim your feminine essence through the path of embodiment. I also facilitate breathwork for those who prefer to work directly with the body and bypass the mind.
As always, the hardest part is taking that first step to reach out for help.
Once we have our first chat, you will notice how safe you feel in my space and you will be glad you didn’t wait any longer.
Remember, whatever you are going through, you are not alone, you are not broken, and you don’t have to do it all alone.
How I can help you
Feminine embodiment mentorship
Holistic Sex & Intimacy Coaching
My voice
My body
My Pleasure
Online Programs / Workshops
Gratitude
I want to express my deep gratitude to my teachers, mentors, coaches, healers, shamans, and everyone who has helped me on my journey, both on my personal path and with my business as a coach, mentor, teacher, and space holder. I wouldn’t be where I am or who I am today without all the amazing people who have seen the potential in me, felt my devotion to my own healing and dedication to show up and serve and help others on their journey. Thank you!