Hi, i am
Alexandra
A sensualist, pleasure expert, sex & intimacy coach and embodiment mentor. I am also a spiritual teacher, heart-led speaker, tantra practitioner, breathwork facilitator, space holder, and full-spectrum woman.
Over the past 5 years, I’ve dedicated myself to helping people reclaim their voice, body, pleasure, and power to experience the love, sex, and intimacy they deserve. My mission is to guide you on a transformative journey, reconnecting you with your body and sexual essence, leading to inner harmony, great sex, and profound fulfilment. I’ve supported countless clients in overcoming sexual challenges, healing past wounds, and embracing their authentic selves and erotic nature.
Whether you’re seeking to get out of your head, reconnect with yourself, deepen your intimacy, awaken your sensuality, or experience stress-free sex, I provide a compassionate, empowering, and safe space with a holistic and trauma-informed approach to help you experience what you deserve and desire in life.
How my journey started
I was born and raised in Sweden and my journey into this work began over two decades ago during my teenage years when I was sexually abused. It felt like everything that was mine was taken away from me. As a survival response, I unknowingly disconnected from my body and my ultimately, my true essence. I was drowning in shame and decided to leave Sweden as soon as I finished school.
I began my search for meaning. To cover up what had happened, I started researching everything about sex, intimacy, relationships, love and pleasure. I thought if I knew it all, no one would ever find out what had happened to me. Plus, I had this one question echoing in my mind as I felt totally broken and confused from the pain inside me:
This can’t be it! There must be more?
More to life, more to love, more to sex?
Before I left Sweden, I stood in front of my school twice, speaking about the importance of emotional and mental connection, communication, consent, and that sex is much more than just something physical. Multiple people suggested I become a sexologist because I talked about these topics so easily, and everyone felt so safe around me. I knew at that moment that one day I would work within the field of Sexology.
It took almost 10 years and a few rock bottoms before I listened to the message from my heart and began to pursue my deepest calling.
So my work is not just something I thought would be fun to do, this is my soul’s work, my purpose. I know that every lived experience along the way has shaped the woman I am today, enabling me to serve and help people like you on your journey back home to your body and liberation. If you, just like me know that you are here for more, you are in the right place.
We have access to so much information and education these days, but you don’t need another self-help book or podcast. You need a safe space, someone you can trust to guide and show you the path as you learn to bring your body on board. This is what will actually allow you to create lasting change in your life.
Intimacy, pleasure, liberation, inner harmony, amazing sex, true love, embodied wisdom, healing, and access to your power, intuition, magic and orgasms… it’s all happening in your body.
“I don’t fear rejection anymore and prioritise myself and my pleasure.”
My healing journey
I moved to Australia 14 years ago with no memory of having had these traumatic childhood experiences. My healing journey began a few years later as I could feel something just wasn’t right in my body. I didn’t know why. My body was holding an intense internal pain that I didn’t understand. I felt so stuck in my head and unable to be present in conversation and connection with others.
I was “the strong and independent woman,” achieving, doing, hustling, stuck in my masculine energy, completely locked out of my own body and heart. As I healed, I started to remember. I discovered that the sexual abuse during my early teens was not the first time, but it was the first time I was old enough to understand what was happening. Looking back now I can see that I spent my life completely disconnected, dissociated, and in a constant trauma response. I felt numb and hated my body. I couldn’t receive pleasure, and like so many other women, I was rolling over in bed after sex feeling empty and broken, thinking something must be wrong with me. I was performing in the bedroom, I couldn’t fully let go so I learned to fake my orgasm. I didn’t have the courage to ask for what I wanted, needed, or desired, or to express my boundaries.
I thought to myself so many times that real love, inner peace, intimate sex and pleasure are just not going to be for me in this lifetime.
Liberation
I tried life coaching, mindfulness, saw a psychologist and other modalities without luck. Yes it felt better for a moment, but it didn’t help creating lasting change within or in my life, my pain was so deep in my body and in my heart. It was only when I discovered the path of feminine embodiment, tantra, somatic healing, shamanic modalities, spiritual teachings, understanding of feminine and masculine energies, bodywork, breathwork, and nervous system regulation that I started to see real change.
Much of the information that influences our behaviours and emotions is conveyed through the body, particularly through the nervous system. This is why modalities that prioritise a body-first approach were key to my liberation and healing and are now forming the foundation and the pillar of my work today.
My
transformation
Today, I absolutely love my body with all its imperfections and flaws. I know how magical it is and I am deeply grateful for everything I can experience thanks to my body. I express myself freely and communicate with ease in all my connections, which has helped me create deep, authentic, and healthy relationships. I experience pleasure beyond what I could ever imagine, deep intimacy, amazing sex, full-body orgasms, and inner harmony. I feel at home in my body and feminine energy which has allowed me to slow down, surrender, and receive everything life has to offer. I can be the business woman who gets shit done when I need to and I can easily get out of my head, drop into my body and allow a man to lead. I promise you, it feels so good! The best part is that I am deeply connected to my intuition and embodied wisdom which has given me access to my power and truth.
I honestly could never imagine this would be possible for me in this lifetime. This is why I am so certain that this is available for everyone who is willing to do the work.
“I am now experiencing greater success.”
Professional Credentials
I started my business 4 1/2 years ago and have since supported hundreds of individuals through various modalities, including 1:1 coaching, online programs, mentorships, workshops, international events, public speaking, breathwork sessions, energy healing, men’s group work, and women’s circles. I am passionate about advocating for embodiment and sexual liberation as essential pathways to a fulfilling life.
Today, I am a certified holistic sex and intimacy coach trained in clinical sexology, trauma-informed embodiment mentor, energy healing, breathwork, and tantra facilitator. I hold a strong and safe space for my clients, welcoming you exactly as you are.
Expertise, philosophy and method
My wealth of experience doesn’t just come from education, certifications, and training. It comes from significant investments in teachers, mentors, personal growth, and my profound healing journey of overcoming childhood trauma and sexual abuse. My expertise goes far beyond a piece of paper or what I have read in a book, it is rooted in lived experiences, embodied wisdom, and a devotion to walking the talk and continuing to learn.
The Four Pillars of My Work
With a comprehensive understanding of each individual’s unique needs, I meet you where you are and guide you toward your fullest potential.
Holistic Approach
Seeing you as whole, integrating the mind, emotions, body, energy, and spirit.
Trauma-Informed Care
A safe space to understand the effects of trauma and challenging experiences in your life. Focus on regulating your nervous system to create lasting change and inner harmony.
Embodiment & Somatic Healing
Utilising movement, breath, sounds, and touch to facilitate healing, pleasure and connection.
Tantra & Spiritual Teachings
Implementing grounded spiritual teachings and tantric fundamentals to guide you towards liberation without bypassing the essential work needed for personal transformation.
Certifications and Training
- Certified Holistic Sex and Intimacy Coach with Sex Coach U – Trained in clinical sexology and co-active coaching by Dr. Patti Britton
- Certified Feminine Embodiment and Tantra Facilitator (200h+) with The School of Tantra & Sacred Arts + One Year Additional Mentorship
- Certified Breathwork Facilitator with Michael Bijker and Life Awareness
- Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification with The Centre of Healing
- Sexual Attitude Reassessment and Restructuring (SAR) Training in Warsaw, Poland
- ISTA Level 1 Spiritual, Sexual, Shamanic Experience
- Psychology of Emotional Eating Certification from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition
- Intuitive Rebirth Energy-Work Practitioner Certification with the Intuitive Rebirth Method
- Level 1 & 2 Sound Healing Crystal Singing Bowls Certification with Rainbow Sounds
Alongside these formal certifications, I have accumulated over a decade of diverse training, courses, and workshops in areas such as life coaching, tantra, trauma healing, sacred sexuality, shamanism, nervous system regulation, holistic wellness, spirituality, mental health, relationships, mindfulness, meditation, and communication.
Now it's your turn
I am deeply devoted to helping you on your journey, whether you want to experience transformative sex and intimacy coaching, reconnect with your body, or reclaim your feminine essence through the path of embodiment. I also facilitate breathwork and energy healing for those who prefer to work directly with the body and bypass the mind totally.
As always, the hardest part is taking that first step to reach out for help.
Once we have our first chat, you will notice how safe you feel in my space and you will be glad you didn’t wait any longer.
Remember, whatever you are going through, you are not alone, you are not broken, and you don’t have to do it all alone.
How I can help you
Feminine embodiment mentorship
Holistic Sex & Intimacy Coaching
My voice
My body
My Pleasure
Online Programs / Workshops
Gratitude
I want to express my deep gratitude to my teachers, mentors, coaches, healers, shamans, and everyone who has helped me on my journey, both on my personal path and with my business as a coach, mentor, teacher, and space holder. I wouldn’t be where I am or who I am today without all the amazing people who have seen the potential in me, felt my devotion to my own healing and dedication to show up and serve and help others on their journey. Thank you!