What’s the average time of penetration during sex?
Penetration can last anywhere between seconds to hours so there is no “normal” time when it comes to how long the penetration lasts.
Studies shows that the average time for heterosexual intercourse is around 7 minutes. Research have also showed that people judge 1-2 minutes of penetration to be “too short” and 3 to 7 minutes was adequate and 7 to 13 minutes desirable, while 13 to 30 minutes was “too long”
This is just the time of penetration and remember there is so much more to s€x than just Penis in Vagina. Remember it is completely normal to ejaculate within seconds at times or not being able to ejaculate at all but if this is bothering you it might be a good idea to see someone to talk about it.
I just want you to keep in mind when you are watching porn that it’s not “normal” to last like they do. Remember it’s like any other movie you’re watching, it’s not real. They are filming all day with breaks in between, filming the same scene a few times, maybe using numbing creams and what not. Do not get distracted with what YOU THINK every one else is doing. Focus on what feels great for you and your partner.
Are you concerned about how long you are lasting in the bedroom or how you are feeling about this topic? Maybe it’s time to consider reaching out to your doctor or to a coach to discuss this and opportunities for you to last longer.