International Anal Sex Day 18 April
Why Anal Sex?
⭐️ It’s taboo and naughty which makes it really arousing and exciting. Doing something that is unusual or wrong can be a massive turn on!
⭐️Great for creating more intimacy in the relationship. It requires good communication, takes a bit of time and you need to be relaxed and feel safe together.
⭐️Anal s€x hits the prostate in people assigned male at birth and it hits the G spot and A spot in people assigned female at birth. Both those spots are located inside the vagina but can be indirectly stimulated during anal sex.
⭐️ Really intense orgasms – Many men and women express that their orgasms are much stronger or more pleasurable when they get their ass played with or during anal penetration. The anus is packed with loads of sensitive nerve endings.
⭐️For some women, anal is the cherry on top of a sexual sundae and some doesn’t like it at all. Same with men. If it’s not your thing that’s cool! If it is, go ahead and enjoy it in a safe way. (Remember not everyone likes sushi and that’s cool)
It can help people relax if they know they are really clean so shower before and anal douching is an option. ⠀
?Make sure you are warm, relaxed, really horny and feel safe with your partner.
?Lube! Lube! LUBE IS NOT AN OPTION.
?Go slow, slow slow! Start with one finger, two fingers, maybe a butt plug and take your time.
?I recommend the person who is getting penetrated move backwards towards the cock or dildo to control the movement at their own pace.
?Try different angles and positions to find out what works best for you. Everyone’s body is shaped differently. Using pillows under the bum can make it easier.
?Relax, breathe through it. Deep breaths help your muscles and body to relax. Allow sounds!
It should never hurt! I can’t stress about this enough. If it’s hurting, today is not the day for anal s€x!!!!
It’s OK to spend weeks and work your way up slowly to be ready for anal sex. Not everyone is comfortable going from A to Ö in one go. Take your time. Enjoy every step of the process. “Anal training” can be fun and intimate. Like a little project or journey you are on together with your partner.
