Share the experience with your partner and let them know when you orgasm!
Isn’t the best thing ever when you can feel, see and hear your partner orgasm? ✨⠀
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How often do partners climax at the same time? Rarely! ⠀
How often does both partners climax at all during sex? Sometimes, but far from every time. ⠀
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Either you are someone who is verbally expressive during sex or not, let your partner know when you cum so they can share the experience with you and be with you on your journey. ⠀
If they know when you are about to cum they can be fully present with you and make your experience much better as well as they get to enjoy your most blissful moment too.
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Allow them to see you, allow them to feel you (cum inside them, on them, over their cock, in front of them) and allow them to hear you. ⠀
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Either you are someone who’s body is easy to read and you are verbally expressive or you’re not, here are some tips on what you can say to share the orgasmic bliss with your lover.⠀
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⭐️I’m cumming⠀
⭐️I think I will orgasm if you keep going⠀
⭐️This feels so nice I am going to cum⠀
⭐️Please don’t stop, let me cum⠀
⭐️I am going to orgasm all over your co*k⠀
⭐️Can I cum in your pussy?⠀
⭐️I feel so close to you I am going to climax.⠀
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If you are with someone who is very quiet and not as expressive as you would like. Make them feel safe and role model what you want more of. ⠀
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It’s also ok to ask them before: I’m not going to chase orgasms tonight or try to achieve something. I just want to be close and intimate with you and explore our connection together, and if you are getting close to orgasm could you please let me know so i can share that with you. ⠀
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What can you do when your partner orgasm to increase their experience? ⠀
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Ask them!!! And if they don’t know, you can always try different things and explore together what really gives them the best experience. ⠀
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Moan loader, breathe deeper, kiss them in the right spot, look them in their eyes, growl in their ear, hold their hands, bite them, kiss their forehead, pin them down, hold their neck, dig your nails into their skin, say the things that really gets them off… ⠀
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Everyone is different and every day is different.
