Speaking
Sydney, NSW & Online
Keynote Speaking, Corporate Training & Transformational Experiences – More Than a Talk
Some talks inspire you for a moment, this one activates you and gives you the tools to shift for life.
No more boring PowerPoints filled with things you already know. Alexandra delivers an experience that moves you into the felt sense of confidence, leadership, empowerment, intimacy, and success.
What if confidence, leadership, and success weren’t just about what you know, but about how you feel in your body?
Most corporate trainings focus on mindset, strategy, and skills, yet ignore the one thing that determines true impact – embodiment.
When we’re disconnected from our bodies, we overthink, second-guess, and push through pressure instead of mastering presence, confidence, and connection. Whether it’s in the boardroom, the bedroom, or beyond, performance anxiety, stress, and disconnection hold people back.
What if instead of just learning about confidence, presence, and connection… you actually felt it?
Conversations That Matter: Alexandra’s Talks Inspire & Transform
The Silent Epidemic: Why Intimacy & Connection Impact Both Workplaces & Well-Being
Companies spend billions on leadership training, team-building exercises, and wellness programs—yet one of the most crucial factors in workplace performance is rarely discussed: intimacy and connection.
When employees struggle in their personal relationships, it doesn’t just stay at home, it impacts focus, motivation, and overall job performance. Distracted employees, rising stress levels, workplace affairs, frequent sick-days, and burnout are all symptoms of a silent epidemic, a lack of meaningful intimacy and connection in their lives.
In 2025, this is the conversation every workplace must have. Research shows that employees in fulfilling relationships are happier, healthier, and more productive. When intimacy is absent, we see increased frustration, disengagement, addiction, and even health issues.
This keynote breaks the silence on why intimacy matters, not just in relationships, but in how we show up in every aspect of life, including business.
This talk explores:
- The silent epidemic of intimacy deprivation—why so many people are emotionally disconnected and the impact it has on work and well-being.
- Why disconnection affects productivity & leadership—how lack of emotional fulfilment leads to distraction, burnout, and poor decision-making.
- The link between intimacy, stress, and mental health—why suppressing emotions and ignoring connection leads to long-term issues.
- How workplace distractions & affairs happen—and what’s really missing underneath it all.
- Healthy intimacy & emotional well-being—why people who feel connected perform better in every area of life.
- Why this conversation is essential in 2025—companies that address human connection will have more engaged, motivated, and resilient employees.
This keynote is for forward-thinking businesses, corporate organisations, and leadership teams that want to elevate company culture, reduce stress-related sick days, and create an environment where employees thrive, not just professionally, but personally.
From Performance Anxiety to True Confidence: Thriving in the Bedroom & the Boardroom
Men often feel under relentless pressure to perform, at work, in relationships, and in the bedroom. There’s an expectation to always be in control, always succeed, always deliver. But this pressure often has the opposite effect, leading to stress, self-doubt, and performance anxiety that impact every area of life.
What happens in the bedroom doesn’t stay in the bedroom. When a man struggles with intimacy, it ripples into his confidence, leadership, mental clarity, and decision-making. And when work stress takes over, it drains his ability to be present, connected, and fulfilled in his relationships.
What if instead of trying to push through pressure, men learned how to release it?
This keynote challenges the outdated belief that success comes from relentless pressure and over performance. Instead, it introduces a new, embodied approach to confidence, leadership, and intimacy, one that transforms pressure into presence, overthinking into clarity, and anxiety into effortless confidence.
Key takeaways from this talk:
- Why performance anxiety happens & how to break the cycle—understanding the mental & physiological patterns that keep men stuck.
- The connection between intimacy & success—how confidence in the bedroom creates confidence in business and leadership.
- Somatic tools for instant stress relief & mental clarity—so men can stop overthinking and start leading.
- How to shift from force to flow—letting go of pressure and embracing true confidence & connection.
- Breathwork & nervous system regulation techniques—practical tools men can use daily for better focus, presence, and performance.
This talk is for men who are ready to stop second-guessing themselves, release the pressure, and step into effortless confidence, in business, relationships, and life.
The Feminine Edge: Unlocking Your Feminine Power & Intuition for Embodied Success
Women have unique, untapped superpowers that give them a natural edge in leadership, business, and life. Intuition, embodied wisdom, emotional intelligence, and cyclical energy aren’t weaknesses, they are strategic advantages.
Yet, so many women spend their energy overthinking, second-guessing themselves, and trying to keep up in a system that wasn’t designed for them. The result? Burnout, self-doubt, and untapped potential.
What if success wasn’t about working harder, but about working smarter by reconnecting to the strengths that are already within you?
This keynote is a wake-up call. It’s time for women to stop suppressing their power, silencing their intuition, and playing by outdated rules. Instead, it’s time to trust ourselves fully and start leading and living with confidence, and succeeding in a way that feels aligned, embodied, and deeply fulfilling.
This talk explores:
- The power of intuition in leadership & decision-making—how to access and trust your inner wisdom to make bold, aligned choices with confidence.
- Breaking free from “good girl” conditioning—why women must stop seeking permission and start owning their voice, presence, and leadership.
- The truth about burnout & why success should feel good—how to harness your energy cycles for sustainable success instead of working against them.
- How feminine embodiment unlocks confidence & magnetism—the key to thriving in business, leadership, and relationships without burnout or self-doubt.
- Reclaiming feminine intelligence in a high-performance world—why honouring your body isn’t a limitation, but a strategy for greater success, influence, and impact.
This keynote is for organisations, leadership teams, and women’s networks who are ready to empower women to thrive, not by working like men, but by embracing their unique feminine edge.
Understanding Women: The Key to Deeper Connection, Success & Fulfilment
In the pursuit of success, many men focus on performance, productivity, and providing for those they love. But what if the key to better leadership, mental clarity, and long-term success wasn’t about doing more, but about understanding the relationships that shape their lives?
Men who cultivate deep connection, emotional intelligence, and intimacy don’t just experience stronger relationships, they become better leaders, clearer decision-makers, and more fulfilled individuals.
When men feel disconnected from the women in their lives, or avoid intimacy altogether, it impacts everything: their work-life balance, mental health, leadership presence, and even job performance. In today’s fast-paced world, we’re seeing rising levels of stress, burnout, addiction, and emotional isolation, particularly among men.
This keynote explores why intimacy, emotional connection, and understanding women aren’t just personal skills, but professional advantages.
This talk explores:
- Why emotional intelligence is a leadership skill—how understanding women leads to stronger communication, negotiation, and decision-making
- The direct link between healthy relationships and business success—how intimacy and connection improve mental clarity, focus, and productivity.
- What women truly need to feel safe, seen & connected, breaking down common miscommunications in relationships & workplace dynamics.
- The cost of disconnection, how lack of intimacy and emotional connection impacts men’s mental health, fulfilment, and long-term success.
- Practical tools for deeper intimacy & understanding, how men can strengthen their relationships, improve their confidence, and thrive in both personal and professional life.
This keynote is for companies, leadership teams, and men’s groups who recognise that success isn’t just about strategy, it’s about relationships. When men thrive in their personal lives, they lead better, perform better, and build legacies that last.
Breaking Free: Healing, Liberation & Reclaiming Your Voice, Body, Pleasure & Power
Too often, conversations about sexual abuse are centred around pain, injustice, and what was taken. But what if healing wasn’t just about surviving, but about fully reclaiming your power, pleasure, and the life you were always meant to live?
Alexandra Shield is not here to fight the system. (There are so many incredible women doing that, credit to them.) She is here as a living embodiment of what’s possible beyond trauma, proof that liberation, confidence, feeling at home in your body, deep intimacy, healthy relationships, and joy are your birthright.
This keynote is not just about inspiration, it’s about showing that healing is possible. It invites the audience to find the courage and strength within themselves to heal when they feel ready to break free from the past.
Through her own journey of healing childhood SA, Alexandra discovered that true liberation happens in the body. Healing isn’t just a decision of the mind, it’s a felt experience. When we shift from victimhood and begin to reconnect with our bodies, cultivate safety within ourselves, and trust our intuition and primordial wisdom, we don’t just reclaim our voices, we reclaim our entire lives.
We become the creators of our own story again.
This talk explores:
- Healing beyond survival—what it truly means to reclaim your body, voice, pleasure, and power after sexual trauma.
- The courage to speak your truth—how sharing our stories, free from shame, has the power to heal both ourselves and the world.
- Finding the gifts in our trauma—how healing allows us to rewrite our narratives and even find gratitude in our journeys.
- The power of embodiment & somatic healing—why true liberation happens in the body, not just the mind.
- Pleasure & intimacy after trauma—how feeling safe in your body opens the door to deeper love, trust, and connection.
This keynote is a love letter to every survivor ready to step into their power. It’s raw, real, and radically inspiring, not focused on what happened, but on what is possible when we choose to heal.
Dating with Intention & Magnetism: How to Enjoy Dating & Attract Aligned Connection in 2025
Modern dating often feels like a time-wasting, energy-draining game, endless swiping, ghosting, mixed signals, and disappointing dates. But what if dating could feel effortless, exciting, and truly fulfilling?
Attraction isn’t just about looks, it’s about energy, embodiment, and presence. When you enter the dating world with confidence, authenticity, and intention, you naturally attract partners who align with you, saving time, avoiding repetitive patterns, and making dating an enjoyable experience instead of an exhausting one.
This keynote explores how to set yourself up for success in dating, avoid bad dates, turn every date into a win (even if they aren’t “the one”), and break free from past mistakes to attract meaningful connections.
This talk explores:
- How to date with clarity & confidence—avoiding time-wasters and emotionally unavailable partners.
- Embodiment & magnetism—why being grounded in your body makes you instantly more attractive.
- Sex, Intimacy & timing—how intimacy impacts connection and how to navigate it with intention.
- Boundaries & communication—vetting partners, setting standards, and breaking old cycles.
- Dating fatigue & rejection—how to stay energised, optimistic, and emotionally centred.
- Ghosting & dating karma—understanding modern dating dynamics & staying in integrity.
- Being the energy you want to attract—how self-awareness creates better relationships.
This keynote can be delivered as a full-length talk or a rapid-fire conversation at singles events, dating events, and matchmaking experiences, helping shift the dating conversation from frustration to clarity, confidence, and genuine connection.