The one thing that kill all potential to orgasm is frustration. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself and you will be able to enjoy more pleasure in the moment.
Orgasm happen when we are relaxed and feel safe!
✅Safe in our body
✅Safe with our partner
✅Safe in the environment
The moment you get frustrated it’s game over.
You get up in you head and move away the focus from pleasure.
If you are feeling that you are getting frustrated.
Maybe
?Because you know you can’t orgasm
?Because you are taking too long
?Because your lover isn’t “getting it right”
?Because you wish you had the courage to tell them how you like to be touched
?Because you just don’t understand why you can’t orgasm even when you think you feel safe, relaxed, comfortable and “have done everything right”
?Because it’s not touch around your sex centre you need, you need to be held.
Take a breathe!
Relax
Come back into your body.
Ask yourself what do I need right now.
And act accordingly or ask for it.
Your body is wise.
It has all the answers.
Listen to it!
Feel it!
Orgasm is not the end goal but it’s pretty damn amazing when it’s happen and you are worthy of delightful orgasms.