We need to normalise LUBE
Imagine going down a waterslide without water… ouch!
Everyone should have a bottle of lube handy to grab next to their bed. We need to move away from a mindset that there is something wrong if we have to use lube and not get wet naturally. It’s completely normal to not always get as wet as we need for penetration.
We don’t see lube in porn and I’m not sure if they even mentioned lubricant in your school education? The thing is around 30% of all the vaginas out there will experience dryness at some stage. Sometimes it doesn’t matter how aroused and horny the person is, the pussy will not just get wet enough to enjoy sex fully or at all. If you are experience discomfort during sex STOP. Sex should not hurt.
It could be different reasons why the pussy doesn’t produce natural lubricant even after lots of foreplay and the person is really horny and mentally and physically ready for penetration. Things that can impact are:
?Stress
?Dehydration
?Hormones
?Time in the the cycle
?Medication
?Unconscious pressure from other areas in life (financial, mother in law, MAFS)
By just adding a bit of lube you could make the experience much more pleasurable for both of you. Also it’s way more fun when you aren’t sore after sex so you can go for round two later that day or in the next morning again, right?
Lube will change the sensation so it can be fun to explore with different textures, flavours and brands. Some people are saying that lube have helped them to last longer and other says it have helped them to experience orgasms or ejaculation when they normally struggle to reach climax during penetration. You have to play around and see what feels good and what works best for you.
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