Hi, i am
Alexandra
I help people slow down, breathe, and come back into their bodies. To reclaim their pleasure and expand their capacity for deep, fulfilling intimacy.
This work isn’t just what I do, it’s a way of being. It’s how I move through the world, how I relate to others, and the presence and care I bring into every session.
I talk about the things most people feel too embarrassed to say out loud, and I create a space where it finally feels safe to be honest about sex, intimacy, desire, and connection.
I’m a trauma-informed holistic sex and intimacy coach, embodiment mentor, and speaker based in Sydney.
Outside of my sessions, you’ll usually find me in nature, hiking in the mountains, swimming at sunrise, or enjoying a slow coffee in the morning light. I love good banter with friends, deep conversations, and a perfectly cooked steak.
Over the past six years, I’ve supported hundreds of women, men, and couples through private coaching, programs, workshops, international events, and speaking. My approach is grounded, trauma-informed, and body-based, focused on creating real, lasting change.
Who i work with
I work with men, women, and couples who want more than just “functioning” sex or surface-level connection.
My clients often come to me when something doesn’t feel quite right.
Performance anxiety, mismatched desire, low libido, difficulty staying present, numbness, lack of pleasure, or a quiet feeling that intimacy could be deeper, more relaxed, and more fulfilling.
Together, we work with the mind, the body, and the nervous system, so sex and connection can start to feel natural again, not something you have to overthink, force, manage, or perform.
Because intimacy was never meant to feel like pressure or performance.
It was meant to feel like home.
My Story
Like many of the people I work with, intimacy didn’t always feel easy or natural for me.
For years, I lived quite disconnected from my body and my pleasure. On the outside, I was strong, capable, and independent. But underneath, I often felt numb, shut down, and unsure how to truly relax into intimacy or express what I wanted.
Sex sometimes felt like something to perform rather than something to enjoy. I struggled to stay present, to receive pleasure, and to feel safe enough to fully open. I was often stuck in my head, wondering if something was wrong with me. I felt broken.
But there was always a quiet question inside me:
This can’t be it. There must be more…
More to sex. More to intimacy. More to pleasure.
That question led me on a long journey into embodiment, nervous system work, breathwork, tantra, and somatic practices. For the first time, I wasn’t just understanding intimacy with my mind, I was experiencing real change in my body.
Slowly, things began to shift. I started to feel safer in my body. Pleasure and sensations returned. Sex felt more natural, and I was no longer stuck in my head worrying about how I looked or performed. I could finally be present. I was in my body.
Connection to others became deeper and real, and I began finding my way back home to myself.
Fun fact: I already knew at 18 that I wanted to become a sexologist. I stood up in school and gave a talk about sex and intimacy, and something in me just knew this was the direction of my life.
That early knowing, combined with my own journey and challenges, is what shaped the work I offer today.
“I don’t fear rejection anymore and prioritise myself and my pleasure.”
Today
I feel at home in my body.
I trust its wisdom. I honour its rhythms. And I experience pleasure, intimacy, and connection in ways I never imagined possible. I communicate with clarity. I express my desires. I’ve created deep, healthy relationships — including with myself.
I can lead when I need to. I can soften and surrender when I choose to. I move through life with confidence, intuition, and embodied power and that’s not something I was taught… it’s something I remembered.
I never imagined this kind of liberation was possible for me, which is exactly why I know it’s possible for you.
“I am now experiencing greater success.”
Professional Credentials
Over the past six years, I’ve supported hundreds of individuals through a wide range of services, including 1:1 coaching, online programs, mentorships, workshops, international events, public speaking, breathwork sessions, men’s groups, and women’s circles.
This breadth of work has given me deep, real-world experience and a clear understanding of the challenges people face around sex, intimacy, confidence, and connection, and what it takes to create lasting change.
Today, I’m a certified holistic sex and intimacy coach trained in clinical sexology, a trauma-informed embodiment mentor, and a breathwork facilitator specialising in nervous system regulation. I hold a grounded, safe, and non-judgmental space where you can show up exactly as you are.
Expertise, philosophy and method
This work is not just something I studied, it’s something I’ve lived.
Alongside my professional training, I’ve invested nearly a decade into mentorship, personal growth, and my own healing journey. The way I work comes from that combination of knowledge, studies and certification, lived experience, and a genuine devotion to helping people feel more at home in their bodies and their relationships.
There’s a certain kind of trust that comes from working with someone who has walked a similar path, someone who truly sees you and understands what you’re going through. That sense of resonance is an important part of the space I hold.
I walk the talk, and that’s something you’ll feel in our sessions. I’m also continually learning, growing, and deepening both my skills and my own embodiment.
Training and certifications
- Certified Holistic Sex and Intimacy Coach with Sex Coach U – Trained in clinical sexology and co-active coaching by Dr. Patti Britton
- Emotional Processing & Nervous System Regulation Practitioner with Mind Body Food Institute
- Certified Feminine Embodiment and Tantra Facilitator (200h+) with The School of Tantra & Sacred Arts + One Year Additional Mentorship
- Certified Breathwork Facilitator with Michael Bijker and Life Awareness
- Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification with The Centre of Healing
- Sexual Attitude Reassessment and Restructuring (SAR) Training in Warsaw, Poland
- Psychology of Emotional Eating Certification from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition
- Level 1 & 2 Sound Healing Crystal Singing Bowls Certification with Rainbow Sounds
Alongside these formal certifications, I’ve spent more than a decade exploring and training in areas such as embodiment, trauma healing, relationships, space holding, communication, mindfulness, and holistic wellbeing through various courses, workshops, and mentorships.
How I work
With a comprehensive understanding of each individual’s unique needs, I meet you where you are and guide you toward your fullest potential.
Holistic Approach
Seeing you as whole, integrating the mind, emotions, body/body image, energy, and spirit.
Personalised Experience
Every session is tailored to you. I combine a mix of holistic practices, somatic tools, and actionable homepractices to support your unique journey. This isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach, it’s a personalised roadmap to help you thrive.
Trauma-Informed Care
Creating a safe space to explore and understand how past and challenging experiences continue to impact your life today. Together, we focus on regulating your nervous system to foster inner harmony and lasting transformation.
Embodiment & Tantra
True transformation begins when the body is included in the process. Talk therapy can offer understanding, but connecting to your sensations and feelings, and integrating breath, movement, sound, touch, and tantric principles, whether in sessions or through home practices creates sustainable shifts that last a lifetime.
If this resonates with you
If something in this page speaks to you, trust that feeling.
You don’t have to figure it all out by yourself.
Whether you’re navigating performance anxiety, relationship challenges, or simply longing for deeper intimacy and pleasure, support is available.
I’m here to support you, wherever you are on your journey, and you’re welcome exactly as you are.
How I can help you
Online Programs / Workshops
Gratitude
I want to express my deep gratitude to my teachers, mentors, coaches, healers, shamans, and everyone who has helped me on my journey, both on my personal path and with my business as a coach, mentor, teacher, and space holder. I wouldn’t be where I am or who I am today without all the amazing people who have seen the potential in me, felt my devotion to my own healing and dedication to show up and serve and help others on their journey. Thank you!