Pleasure hunt

Today’s Intimacy game is actually a game, a competition. The person who loses has to cook dinner tomorrow, give the winner a full body massage, clean the bathroom or whatever you two agree to beforehand.

Grab a few post it notes or paper and pen.
I recommend doing this naked or in underwear but keep the clothes on if you like.
Person A writes a spot on their body on a post it and puts it under the pillow or upside down on the table or just away so the other person can’t see. ( Nose, backside of the knee, ears, genitals, forehead, left ankle, wrists etc)
Person B is now going to kiss one body part at the time on person A until they find the right spot. Count every kiss and do 5 post it each. Swap between each round.

Write down the points between the rounds so you can keep track and the person with the lowest points who finds the right spots first is the winner.

Feel free to play around with the kisses and make them as pleasurable and teasing as possible. A little nibble is fine, maybe suck a bit or lick before you kiss. A gentle bite could work but be careful, it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. You know if your partner likes this, otherwise ask them before the game if biting is ok.

Also check in with each other before and ask about boundaries.
Are there any body parts you don’t want me to kiss?

This is great for a few reasons.

  • It gives you a chance to write down a spot that your partner normally doesn’t kiss you. Now you can kinda hint where you like more kisses.

  • While your partner is trying to find the right spot you might explore a new zone or area on your body that is really pleasurable. (Don’t forget to tell them afterwards, tex – It was very unexpected but when you kissed the backside of my knee it felt so good and tickled me in my genitals as well)

  • This gives you a chance to explore your partner’s body and kiss them in random places you normally wouldn’t do because it’s too weird, too taboo, or too risky what they might think. Now, the game is on and you really want to win so be creative.

  • It’s fun, it’s easy and it will most like turn you both on like crazy.