Porn! Can be great for inspiration BUT NOT education
All we see in porn is massive cocks, only one “porn pussy”. It’s unusual bodies, doing unusual things in unusual places. The best things about sex is left out from porn. Like hugging, eye gazing, bonding, kissing, LOVE, intimacy, breathing in sync and all that really mind blowing connecting and fun stuff.
I get it, it’s not visually stimulating watching two people hug each other for 10 minutes.
That’s why we don’t see that kind of stuff in porn. What we do see is people who are airbrushed, haven’t eaten for days or spend 8 hours / day training because their body is their full time job. The women have unrealistic bodies and all the cocks are way above average sizes and the angle they are filming make them look even bigger. Stop comparing yourself to what you see in porn. It’s not real, they are filming the same scene a whole day with brakes for food, drinks and maybe drugs.
It’s all fine to watch porn and enjoy the fantasies and the visually stimulating scenes. Either it’s something we would like to try or not. Most of the time people like to watch things but never actually want to do it themselves. It’s all normal and I’m not against porn but we need to look at it with the right mindset. Porn can be great for inspiration but not education. We need to have the conversation around porn with the younger generation. It’s out there and they are going to see it no matter what.
The thing is every teenager or adult who watches Batman or Star Wars knows that it’s not real, but they can still enjoy the movie. The same should go with porn. The problem is that not every teenager or adult know that sex doesn’t work as we see it in porn. We need to let the younger generation know and remind the adults that’s porn is people getting paid to act “sex”. They might have real sex but it’s far from a real experiences or how sex and intimacy works in real life.
It’s far from how woman enjoy sex and it’s not expected that men should fuck like that for 45 minutes.
