Teasing? Ohhhh Yes please!
I honestly don’t think there is many other things that adds spark to a relationship and build sexual tension and lust between two people than teasing.
Think about it, we started teasing each other at an early age, in school, teased our friends, our sports team members and how much didn’t we tease our siblings? I’m not talking about that kind of teasing when you cross the line and go too far and ended up in the naughty corner….
Unless that’s your thing and you love a punishment of course. Many people get sexually aroused from the thought of getting punished so it’s all normal.
Back to teasing… You don’t have to stress about it. Keep it simple, it’s the little things in life that can drive us the most crazy. Take off your underwear on the way to dinner or pop them in his or her pocket. Send an unexpected naughty text at work, use your feet to reach your lover and touch them inappropriately under the table at a dinner party. Whispers what you want to do to him or her when you are around other people and can’t leave. Wear something really sensual while you are walking around in the home talking to your mum on the phone and don’t allow any kind of touch. Clean the house naked. There is always ways to tease, be playful and turn on your partner that doesn’t require much effort, extra time or energy. It will most likely turn on yourself in the process as well, double win
I know we live busy lives but there is the little things like this that helps us keep the spark in our relationships even when times get busy.
There is always something exciting about doing “we shouldn’t be doing this” kinda stuff right? Also, we will always crave what is just out of reach so be strong and keep up the teasing, don’t give in. Make your lover crave you badly, desire you, want you and need you, maybe even make them beg for you.
Have fun, play around and laugh. Teasing should be fun and so should sex be.
What’s your favourite way to tease your lover?