The importance of foreplay
Have you heard this one? When it comes to sex, men are like microwaves and women are like crockpots.
A man can be turned on and hot at the press of a button. A woman needs to be turned on in the morning and takes a while to heat up. You can’t just flip the switch and expect a gourmet meal.
Truth is it takes between 20-40 minutes of foreplay before a woman is fully open and ready for penetration. (This doesn’t have to mean 40 minutes of physical touch and kissing. Remember sex starts in the brain so foreplay can be texting beforehand, teasing around in the kitchen, turning yourself on by thinking about sex, exchanging naughty photos, spending the day at the beach together glance at every curve and observe every inch of each other’s bodies etc)
A general guideline is 20-40 min of foreplay for anyone who wants to penetrate a woman but you can touch a woman in so many ways without using your hands. Don’t let this put you off the options for a hot steamy quickie, just make sure she’s ready.
