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Holistic Sex
And Intimacy Coaching

Women, men, individuals & couples, in person or online

Welcome, I'm so glad you’re here.

If you’ve been feeling disconnected in the bedroom, struggling with desire, confidence, or intimacy, you’re not alone.

What if sex could feel deeply nourishing, safe, and wildly pleasurable?

What if intimacy wasn’t just something you do but something you feel… in your body, your heart, and your entire being?

I’ve helped hundreds of people overcome shame, blocks, disconnection and challenges in their sex lives and relationships.

Now, it’s your turn.

Let’s reconnect you to your body, sexuality, and deepest intimacy.

Your path to pleasure, confidence, and true connection starts with one bold step. Are you ready?

How i can Help

My services as a trauma informed holistic sex and intimacy coach address a wide range of topics, desires and challenges:

Pleasure focused sex education
Low libido or lack of desire
Mismatched libidos in relationships
Performance anxiety
Orgasm challenges
Body image
Numbness and disconnection from your own body/sexuality/genitals
Intimate communication
Confidence
Keeping the spark alive
Sexless relationships
Erectile challenges
Early or delayed ejaculation
Feeling stuck in the mind during intimate moments
Dating
Communicating desires, boundaries, or fantasies
Exploring deeper intimacy and enhancing your sex life
Releasing feelings of shame, guilt and fear
Sex and intimacy after trauma
Tantra, and sacred sexuality
The art of pleasuring your lover
And so much more

"Thanks to her support, I’m now able to finish with my wife, and we’re enjoying great sex again, even better than before"

"I came to Alexandra because I was struggling with performance anxiety and couldn’t finish with my wife. This was a new and deeply frustrating challenge for me. I felt stuck in my head, like I was failing in the bedroom and letting my wife down. From our very first session, Alexandra made me feel completely safe. She was compassionate, funny and straightforward in her approach, which I really appreciated. Thanks to her support, I’m now able to finish with my wife, and we’re enjoying great sex again, even better than before"

Gary, Gold Coast

"We got the spark back in our marriage and we couldn't recommend her enough"

"Alexandra was amazing from day one. She made us feel so comfortable in a situation we went into feeling really anxious. She has changed things for us in our marriage and helped us bring out spark back. We couldn’t recommend her enough. Thank you so much"

M & J Couple Sydney

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"I am way clearer, in my feminine flow and more connected to my body than ever before"

"I thought going into the course that my issue was with my inability to connect with and be intimate and vulnerable with others. But I have realised it starts with me and I needed to be more intimate and vulnerable with myself and go deeper inward. I am way clearer, in my feminine flow and more connected to my body than ever before. I'm so grateful I followed the nudge and did the course, I got way more out of it than I was expecting and it was worth every minute and cent. It's crazy how much can change in 7 weeks. Thank you Alex - your energy is contagious."

Courtney, Sydney

"I’ve learnt to love myself and my body again"

"Alexandra, when we met it was with ease that I could open up and speak to you about pretty much anything I wanted to talk about, which was refreshing and to also have another woman's view of things. The biggest change in me came on the back of your homework exercises. I’ve learnt to love myself and my body again. I've had a lot of people see me differently and see massive changes in me. Body wise and spiritual. I feel so blessed to have you as my coach and looking forward to working with you again. You have been a great listener and a great coach. I would highly recommend you to anyone wanting to better their sex life and body image."

T Man, Sydney

"Working with Alexandra was life changing. It made me regain my self confidence with women, in relationships and in sex"

"Working with Alexandra was life changing. It made me overcome fears that I didn't know were blocking me, I regained my confidence. Alexandra was like a soft and padded cushion for my heavy and annoying stresses I was carrying on my back. Her calm and peaceful approach were the exact two things I incorporated more in my life since I started working with her. It made me regain my self confidence with women, in relationships and in sex. Thank you Alexandra"

Martin, Sydney

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"I have the sex drive I had in my teens again which is really life changing!"

"I wanted to reach out and say thank you so much for your help last year. Working with you was game-changing for me in speaking openly about sex/struggles with sex (generally but most importantly with myself), understanding what I needed to feel safe and communicating this fully and honestly with my partner. When starting with you I honestly couldn't imagine genuinely being able to enjoy sex ever again but now I absolutely do and have the sex drive I had in my teens which is really quite life changing! Thank you so much for everything Alexandra."

Woman, Sydney

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"I was able to identify some major roadblocks"

"I approached Alexandra initially when I had recently become single and began to navigate the world of dating with the intention of being more confident in communicating my wants and desires in the bedroom and becoming a better lover. What we uncovered in our sessions together went so much deeper and I was able to identify some major roadblocks going back years that had been holding me back both in dating and life. I cannot recommend working with Alexandra enough, she has a very warm demeanour that makes you feel very safe and heard while at the time she is a wealth of knowledge and explains things in a way that made sense to me."

James, Sydney

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"I discovered my sexual energy and could explore my sexuality and my pleasure in a way I never would have on my own"

"I always thought that I wasn't a sexual person but my journey with Alexandra and the MVBP course has helped me discover my sexual energy. The course encouraged me and supported me to explore my sexuality and my pleasure in a way I never would have on my own. It's given me tools, the language and the self trust I need to explore and grow my voice my body and my pleasure!"

Gabrielle, Sydney

"I am prioritising myself and my pleasure"

"I have an increased awareness of my bodily and emotional reactions to things outside my comfort zone/fear of rejections and how to physically work through those things so I don’t become disabled by fear. I think as well that thing of actually really prioritising yourself and your pleasure and creating a day that you want to live has been really powerful. Thank you for prompting me to try all these new things, I’ve learned so much from you."

Megan, UK

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My approach

Holistic and Trauma-Informed Care
Understanding that every individual and relationship is unique, I tailor my sessions to meet your specific needs. My approach integrates mind, body, emotions, energy, and spirit, ensuring comprehensive care.

Safe and Non-Judgmental Space
I prioritise creating an environment where you feel safe to express yourself fully. My sessions are confidential, and I am here to listen and support you with compassion and without judgment.

Personalised Guidance
I work closely with you to understand your goals, desires and challenges. Whether you’re seeking to overcome specific obstacles or deepen your connection with yourself or your partner, I provide the tools and support you need.

Embodiment and Somatic Healing
With help of somatic tools and embodiment practices, I help you reconnect with your body and its sensations. This approach supports healing, enhances pleasure, and deepens your connection to yourself, your sexuality and your partner.

“After spending over two decades researching sex, pleasure, and intimacy, along with professional training and education, plus having supported hundreds of people around the globe, there is nothing I haven’t heard or seen. You are safe, and all parts of you are welcome here.”

What to Expect

When you work with me, you can expect a personalised experience. Together, we will:

Explore your desires and goals
Identify and overcome your intimate challenges
Develop communication skills for better relationships & sex
Learn techniques to enhance pleasure, connection and intimacy
Reconnect with your body and its sensations
Sessions might include non sexual somatic practices to help you integrate the session and deepen the connection to your own body
Each session comes with a follow-up email within 48 hours, offering tools, practices, and home play to help you move towards your goals and how you want to feel

Coaching sessions are entirely talk-based, with the option to include non-sexual somatic practices if desired. Everyone remains fully clothed. Even so, these sessions can be deeply transformative, helping you explore sex, intimacy, pleasure, and how to get out of your head and into your body so you can experience truly amazing sex.

Why work with a sex coach?

You don’t have to do it all alone. Just like with any other area of your life, working with a coach or mentor can help you achieve results more quickly and effectively. Google doesn’t know your unique needs, blockages, challenges, and desires. I’m sure you’ve already tried searching for answers online, but true transformation requires personalised guidance and support.

Working with me as your holistic sex and intimacy coach can be a fun and exciting journey. You deserve empowering support along the way. With my guidance, you’ll often leave sessions feeling inspired, lighter and excited about the future. You’ll receive proper education and practical tools tailored to help you move towards your goals and desires.

Investing in a sex coach means investing in yourself. Let’s begin this transformative journey together so you can create and experience the fulfilling sex life you’ve always wanted.

I am looking forward to speak to you soon.

Holistic Sex
And Intimacy Coaching

Women, men, individuals & couples, in person or online

Welcome, I'm so glad you’re here.

How i can Help

"Thanks to her support, I’m now able to finish with my wife, and we’re enjoying great sex again, even better than before"

Gary, Gold Coast

"We got the spark back in our marriage and we couldn't recommend her enough"

"Alexandra was amazing from day one. She made us feel so comfortable in a situation we went into feeling really anxious. She has changed things for us in our marriage and helped us bring out spark back. We couldn’t recommend her enough. Thank you so much"

M & J Couple Sydney

"I am way clearer, in my feminine flow and more connected to my body than ever before"

Courtney, Sydney

"I’ve learnt to love myself and my body again"

T Man, Sydney

"Working with Alexandra was life changing. It made me regain my self confidence with women, in relationships and in sex"

Martin, Sydney

"I have the sex drive I had in my teens again which is really life changing!"

Woman, Sydney

"I was able to identify some major roadblocks"

James, Sydney

"I discovered my sexual energy and could explore my sexuality and my pleasure in a way I never would have on my own"

Gabrielle, Sydney

"I am prioritising myself and my pleasure"

Megan, UK

My approach

What to Expect

Why work with a sex coach?

Made by Loulou

I acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the land on which I live, work, and connect. I recognize the enduring connection of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples to land, water, and community. I pay my respects to Elders past, present, and emerging.

Connection call

Holistic Sex And Intimacy Coaching

Women, men, individuals & couples, in person or online

Welcome, I'm so glad you’re here.

How i can Help

"Thanks to her support, I’m now able to finish with my wife, and we’re enjoying great sex again, even better than before"

Gary, Gold Coast

"We got the spark back in our marriage and we couldn't recommend her enough"

"Alexandra was amazing from day one. She made us feel so comfortable in a situation we went into feeling really anxious. She has changed things for us in our marriage and helped us bring out spark back. We couldn’t recommend her enough. Thank you so much"

M & J Couple Sydney

"I am way clearer, in my feminine flow and more connected to my body than ever before"

Courtney, Sydney

"I’ve learnt to love myself and my body again"

T Man, Sydney

"Working with Alexandra was life changing. It made me regain my self confidence with women, in relationships and in sex"

Martin, Sydney

"I have the sex drive I had in my teens again which is really life changing!"

Woman, Sydney

"I was able to identify some major roadblocks"

James, Sydney

"I discovered my sexual energy and could explore my sexuality and my pleasure in a way I never would have on my own"

Gabrielle, Sydney

"I am prioritising myself and my pleasure"

Megan, UK

My approach

What to Expect

Why work with a sex coach?

Made by Loulou

I acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the land on which I live, work, and connect. I recognize the enduring connection of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples to land, water, and community. I pay my respects to Elders past, present, and emerging.

Connection call

Holistic Sex
And Intimacy Coaching