Eat Pussy like a God!
The best oral sex doesn’t happen with someone who has the best technique or skills.
It happens with the person who shows how much they love licking pussy.
When they show their enthusiasm, when they are present, when they do it because they love it and not just to get their partner off as quickly as possible to feed their own ego.
The number one tip to lick her pussy so she sees fireworks is to make her feel wanted and desired. Make her feel sexy and beautiful. Make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Make sure she knows that she is perfect, that her pussy is perfect and that she is enough.
Help her get out of her head and into her body, guide to let go and to deep surrender. ?
We are constantly conditioned with messages in this society about how we should look naked, how there is only one “porn star pussy” that is normal and how women should behave in bed to be sexy.
Fuck that shit, if you want to be the best at oral sex make her feel how much you appreciate her and how grateful you are to eat her pussy.
Here are some specific tips.
- Learn her anatomy, google and have a look where the clitoris is, the vaginal opening, her lips, G-spot, A-spot, anal and so on.
- Build up is everything!
Kiss her on her mouth, take your time, touch her HEART (no you don’t have to be in love to pour love into the action. Connect her heart to her sexuality and her pussy) touch her breast, kiss her neck, lick her ears, nibble on her nipples, kiss her stomach, lick her hip bones, massage her inner thighs and pretty much everywhere just not her pussy.
- Touch her, caress her, squeeze her in the right ways and make her feel really fucking desired. The more you make her feel wanted, the more you make her feel sexy, beautiful and comfortable, the more she will love it even if you don’t get the lick flicks right or the fingers on the right spots.
- Keep the panties on!! Go slow remember, kiss her pussy with the panties still on, blow warm air through them, lick and maybe suck on her lips, gentle. Moan over her clitoris and send vibration through.
- Don’t hold back on sounds. I honestly haven’t heard one single woman yet who doesn’t love a man who is vocal in bed. Growl, moan, let out whatever noises that come from you, talk dirty if that is your thing. Tell her how much you love her body if that’s the case or how good she tastes. Keep it real and don’t overdo it, but please don’t hold back.
- Take off her panties and take them off all the way! .
- Kiss all around her pussy. Inner thighs, lower stomach, pubic bone, outside the outer lips, kiss, lick, nibble, breathe, growl… as you do so let the outside of your lips just touch the edge of her inner lips or a tiny bit of her clitoris.
Tease, tease tease!!!! Make her squirm, make her cry out loud, make her beg you to eat her alive.
- If you keep your tongue flat and relaxed it covers a bigger area of her pussy at the same time. Lick her up and down, make sure there is plenty of saliva on your tongue. .
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- Find the clitoris but don’t go straight for the bullseye. The clitoris is the most sensitive area and the little bean needs time to warm up.
It has more nerve endings than the penis, 8000 to be exactly. Lick around the clitoris, play around with a flat tongue or make your tongue hard and pointy. Everyone is different and every day the pussy might crave different ways of sensation, so there is no “right way”.
- Notice her breathing, listen to her noises, read her body language and feel into what she likes. Ask her!
- Do the Vortex – Create a circle with your lips that are just a little bit bigger than the clitoris and place this “O” over the clitoris and suck. Start gentle and play around with rhythm and pressure. Again make sure your lips are wet.
- Find what works for her and keep a steady rhythm. I would say consistency is the key when she is getting close to cum so try keep the same pressure and the same speed. Often people start to press harder or faster when they notice she gets closer (fingers or tongue) and unfortunately this is not the winning concept in many cases
- Use your fingers! As you are licking her clitoris try to reach for her g-spot inside her vagina.
- Use your fingers and stimulate her A-spot. The A-spot is around 2 inches higher on the front wall over the G-spot. The A-spot is the spot that produces the natural lubricant inside the vagina and often when we have internal orgasms it’s the A-spot that gets stimulated. One of my favourite spots.
- Use your finger and stimulate the back-wall towards her anus. For many women the bottom of her vagina on the back is very sensitive and this can be super nice if you find her right spots. Again everyone is different and you have to try what works for her. .
- Lick her clit, finger her G-spot and play with her ass.
Okay this might get a bit tricky but with practice and with a woman who loves this, her eyes will be rolling in the back of her head.
(Never surprise a woman with a finger in her ass, make sure you know if she is open for it and if she is fine with it today) You can just hold the finger inside, penetrate in and out or massage inside. (Never use your fingers that have been in the ass close to the vagina again) .
You can always play around and try different things.
Add some dirty talk, play around with power exchange and pin her arms down, tie them up or get her to be in control and order you what to do.
Get her to play with her clitoris while you are licking and fingering her opening or get her to play with her boobs or nipples for more pleasure.
Add some ice or lube that tastes good. Play around with sensations of light slapping on the pussy or use toys.
You can add vibrators, dildos or butt plugs.
It’s all about checking in with her what she likes and what she is open to try.
Ask her along the way
-Do you want me to go faster?
-Should I use less pressure?
-Do you like when I finger you inside at the same time?
-How can I make this more pleasurable for you?
Again, don’t make orgasm the end goal and never ever say:
Are you close or are you there yet?
That will just make her feel like she is taking too long, that you are bored and that you are only licking her for her pleasure and as something you probably should do and not because you love it.
Trust me any woman can feel the difference.
So use the tips I just gave you but the one thing to remember is
As long as you love it and she can feel how much you love it and you are open for directions and willing to ask her you can’t go wrong.
Have fun and if you have any other tips, please share them with me 🙂
